Sheila - “You have to communicate with me. I am not the same woman I used to be. I am not the kind of woman that can deal with that kind of disconnect anymore. Baby, the hardest thing in the world is to have a good man after you’ve had a bad one.”
Troy - “I think it’s harder to have a good woman after she’s had a bad man.”
Why Did I Get Married Too?
when you think someone’s really cool and you have a lot in common and you know they’ll probably enjoy talking to you but YOU’RE STILL TOO SCARED TO APPROACH THEM OR TALK TO THEM ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT IN FEAR OF COMING OFF AS ANNOYING
when someone makes you feel insecure about liking something
wanting queer people in your media does not mean wanting queer pornography in your media any more than having straight people in your media means wanting straight pornography in your media
it’s like saying that romance is only valid when people fuck on camera, a fact which 99% of fairy tales and Disney films would point out as false.
the existence of queer people is not difficult to show without mucking up a story that has nothing to do with romance because the existence of straight people is not difficult to show without mucking up a story that has nothing to do with romance
it’s like saying that you can’t have a character who waits tables in your story because the book isn’t about a restaurant.
why is this so difficult?
a woman’s body is not for you. if she wants to cover it she should feel free and safe in doing so. if she wants to expose it she should feel free and safe in doing so. it is not an indication of her self-respect but an indication of her preferences for whatever reasons she chooses — none of which are your business or concern.
things i dont need in my life:
- wasps
- those stringy things on the banana
- commercials on youtube